So I decided I might as well jump in at the deep end. I figured Leeds was the biggest place I could get to easily, and I knew of a decent car park from my previous LFF adventure.
I had also hoped to look in some of the charity shops, but I actually didn't end up seeing any - I should have thought to find where they all were :)
I got ready at a leisurely pace so it was nearly lunch time before I was there. I had planned on trying an LGBT+ friendly Café I had found while googling friendly venues locally https://flamingoscoffeehouse.co.uk
I had a Pastrami and Emmental bagel, with a Cappuccino - it was lovely :
Then I headed around a few of the shops in Trinity, got some trainers in Deichman, took an obligatory selfie in a mirror in Next :
Then had a pleasant stroll around the art gallery, bought a book from Waterstones and headed home via the large Asda nearer home. I got myself a spotty dress in there (also wearing the new trainers).
I didn't really catch anyone staring at me around Leeds itself, I didn't hear any bad comments - well no good ones either :) - I was largely ignored.
There was one guy in Asda that perhaps studied me a bit, but he might have just being staring off into the distance wishing the world would end, he was shopping with his wife.
I spoke to the sales people in the book shop, and the shoe shop, all was well. Spoke to a guide in the art gallery too, everyone treated me very nicely, it was great, it all felt very normal, I was fairly relaxed and having a good time. I'm not sure if I would have had as much of a good time in man mode to be honest.
I think I will try and set off sooner next time, and make arrangements so I don't have to be back so soon. I think there are other galleries and museums I can visit.
Perhaps I will do York or Sheffield some time.




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I didn't realise you'd gone full Izzy! It's a wonderful feeling you describe. And your selfies... I mean... Wow. So stoked for you! I suspect you will enjoy your Waterstones' purchase even more than I thought initially!!
Sorry, reading this post has genuinely lifted my mood - I hope it did the same for you living it (well, that's a daft statement, it's obvious that it did!).
It was a really good day - I am glad it lifted your mood , I was happy for all of it, which is unusual for me - a nice warm background content feeling. Although I never look like I am in the selfies.
DeleteIt was also the first day I've presented from getting up in the morning, until going to bed !
Aside from wearing a male T-shirt while putting foundation on, as I am terrible at getting it everywhere.
That is a huge deal! (the full day) Your smile in the last shot says it all!
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